Control. Direct. Manipulate. Maneuver. Arrange. Plan. Organize. We do these things all the time. We’re always trying to create the outcomes that we want in life. But inevitably, with nearly everything in life, there comes a point when you can no longer plan, control or manipulate the result. There is always something beyond your control. […]
I find myself processing a lot what I call the “grey” issues of leadership… the answers and decisions that are not so easy to figure out. (I think that’s why they call it leadership, right?) As Cross Point has grown, one of the big grey areas for me is the leadership of letting go. I […]
In less than 12 hours I fly out of the country on a ten day trip. And rather than being excited about getting away with my husband for a much needed vacation, I’m freakishly trying to make sure I’ve crossed all my t’s and dotted all my i’s. I’m sure the staff are about fed […]
It’s no secret. I like to be in control. I like to be in charge. And as a leader I’m naturally wired for this. The danger for me is what I consider another “grey” leadership issue. As a leader (who is prone to control), one of the most grey issues for me is knowing when […]
“My spiritual development won’t result from driven behavior. It will only come from careful listening, quiet surrender, and active and purposeful engagement.” From Dare to Journey with Henri Nouwen by Charles Ringma If you know me well, you know the first statement of that quote rattles me. Driven behavior – I’m pretty sure my name […]
“My spiritual development won’t result from driven behavior. It will only come from careful listening, quiet surrender, and active and purposeful engagement.” From Dare to Journey with Henri Nouwen by Charles Ringma If you know me well, you know the first statement of that quote rattles me. Driven behavior – I’m pretty sure my name […]