When You Get to the Letting Go

Control. Direct. Manipulate. Maneuver. Arrange. Plan. Organize. We do these things all the time. We’re always trying to create the outcomes that we want in life. But inevitably, with nearly everything in life, there comes a point when you can no longer plan, control or manipulate the result. There is always something beyond your control. […]

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The Leadership of Letting Go

In less than 12 hours I fly out of the country on a ten day trip.  And rather than being excited about getting away with my husband for a much needed vacation, I’m freakishly trying to make sure I’ve crossed all my t’s and dotted all my i’s.  I’m sure the staff are about fed […]

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Control Freak

It’s no secret.  I like to be in control.  I like to be in charge.  And as a leader I’m naturally wired for this.  The danger for me is what I consider another “grey” leadership issue. As a leader (who is prone to control), one of the most grey issues for me is knowing when […]

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Me & My Behavior Problems

“My spiritual development won’t result from driven behavior.  It will only come from careful listening, quiet surrender, and active and purposeful engagement.” From Dare to Journey with Henri  Nouwen by Charles Ringma If you know me well, you know the first statement of that quote rattles me. Driven behavior – I’m pretty sure my name […]

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Me & My Behavior Problems

“My spiritual development won’t result from driven behavior.  It will only come from careful listening, quiet surrender, and active and purposeful engagement.” From Dare to Journey with Henri  Nouwen by Charles Ringma If you know me well, you know the first statement of that quote rattles me. Driven behavior – I’m pretty sure my name […]

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